|Posted on May 15, 2016 at 2:55 PM|
Searching for Acceptance?
We all have to be comfortable in our own skin or we will forever search for acceptance from others. Love yourself first if you want others to love you. By that I mean, be good to yourself and know that you deserve to be happy. Don't depend on others for your happiness or you may wait a long time. There are so many ways to make yourself happy and I'm not referring to masturbation! Okay, maybe that's a start. That is loving yourself first, yes. Are you happy with yourself? Why or why not? You deserve to be happy so treat yourself to a walk along the river-walk or sit in the park to enjoy listening to the birds, the wind in the trees and those walking by hand in hand. We don't need someone else to be happy and you'll not find it if you aren't happy first.
Change your thinking mentally and talk nice to yourself. Quit the bad self-talk, look in the mirror and tell yourself how beautiful you are with that gorgeous smile. You make others happy each time you smile at them. Try it...if they don't smile back, then they are not happy with themselves. Know now that YOU don't want to be in that category any longer. Stand up straight, hold your head high and know you are somebody's best friend because of WHO you
When good things come your way, know you deserve them. This leads to the next step...we attract to us what we think about! Think on that for a minute! Change your thoughts and you change your life. I'm a firm believer in that, even though sometimes, bad things are going to happen that are beyond our control. Move on and don't let those times weigh you down.
Do others accept you for who you are? No? Their loss. They aren't worth your time. Find people who think like you do...who love themselves first because those are the happy people. I hope this has moved you forward one step today. Stay happy and know love is out there, be it from friends or a soul mate! Those are the things I write about because I believe in love and love myself first. Thank you for stopping by. Please book mark my page and come back often.